Comments on: My Second Trimester Recap https://reztt.com/my-second-trimester-recap/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-second-trimester-recap A Lifestyle Blog from Eva Amurri Tue, 10 May 2022 10:25:11 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.5 By: absedk https://reztt.com/my-second-trimester-recap/#comment-199161 Tue, 10 May 2022 10:25:11 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=19350#comment-199161 abc thanks thanks article]]> thanks abc thanks thanks article

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]]> By: Krishnan https://reztt.com/my-second-trimester-recap/#comment-172104 Thu, 08 Apr 2021 07:12:52 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=19350#comment-172104 Thanks for writing

]]> By: Emily https://reztt.com/my-second-trimester-recap/#comment-151475 Tue, 31 Dec 2019 21:28:10 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=19350#comment-151475 I always read your posts, but have never commented. However today I felt like it was drastically needed. You are amazing and are handling your situation and new normal with incredible strength and grace. I hope that all the positive comments here can help outweigh the negative. Just know that you have so many good vibes coming your way! Keeping your babes healthy and happy is what is important. Only you know what is best for you and them. It may be hard, but try and dismiss the rest of the hateful negative comments. You got this Mama!

]]> By: Arerh https://reztt.com/my-second-trimester-recap/#comment-151026 Thu, 26 Dec 2019 05:24:49 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=19350#comment-151026 I hope you have a happy and healthy 3rd trimester. You’re so brave to share so much and help others along the way. I’m sorry some people spew such hateful comments.
Your family is beautiful and you are all blessed to welcome a new baby boy soon

]]> By: Areth https://reztt.com/my-second-trimester-recap/#comment-151022 Thu, 26 Dec 2019 05:17:16 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=19350#comment-151022 Sam. Wow how insulting and you have no right]]> In reply to Sam.

Wow how insulting and you have no right

]]> By: Natalie https://reztt.com/my-second-trimester-recap/#comment-150603 Mon, 23 Dec 2019 18:57:01 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=19350#comment-150603 Thank you for your post and sharing a little bit of your world with us. It is appreciated, even though a select few would have you think otherwise. Trust me, that is not how the majority of your followers think. We LOVE you and your family. No one should ever make you feel bad for your choices. You are doing a great, your kids are happy and healthy, and that’s all that matters right now.

]]> By: Soph https://reztt.com/my-second-trimester-recap/#comment-150382 Sun, 22 Dec 2019 16:36:32 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=19350#comment-150382 It is so unfortunate how ugly complete strangers can be to another being. Then to see the complete opposite, unconditional love for a “stranger”, from all walks of life. We’re all in your corner Eva! Rooting for your entire family! Team Martino!!

Galex – What an eloquent response!

I hope more and more people can better understand the mental health of everyone in the family is much more important than just biting your tongue and acting like everything is perfect.

]]> By: galex https://reztt.com/my-second-trimester-recap/#comment-150366 Sun, 22 Dec 2019 14:33:32 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=19350#comment-150366 I’m not replying to the troll above because they are undeserving, but needless to say, it’s exactly this kind of shaming that keeps people in terrible situations. I did not separate while I was pregnant, but I should have. I’m in the midst of it now and it began when my son was a bit over a year.

No one makes this kind of decision lightly; I certainly didn’t. My desire to stay married was forged in a deep commitment to the health of the whole family and the recognition that I needed to leave was made under the weight of the same commitment.

I’m not public about the details except with a few trusted friends. But the larger issue was that the choices my spouse was making were incommensurate with that of a modern partnership. And, I was increasingly concerned that our children would believe that this was a model they should follow. I’ve been very intentional about staying away from a narrative of victimhood. While I am not happy with this where we ended up, I’m careful about how I communicate that because I don’t want my children to believe that divorce simply equals failure or that I have been simply wronged. What that means is that I have fits of sobbing and cursing into my pillow and with my therapist, but that my adult face is one of determined commitment to the changing shape of my family. Sometimes that means I overcompensate when my husband and I are together with the kids–the voice is too lilting, the smile a bit too wide, the insistence that “I’m actually very happy with my life though sad about this turn, no regrets” a tad rushed–but that’s all because it’s not my children’s job to be the adults and nurse my feelings. It’s my job to take care of them. And that doesn’t mean staying in a relationship that is unhealthy but modeling a commitment to mental and emotional health through the rough moments in life.

So best wishes to you in this stage of your life and in this stage of the year. Both pregnancy and the holidays come with a welter of emotions and expectations, I feel the ups and downs acutely. Ready for a new year.

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