Comments on: Disappointment, Fear, Gratitude & Growth https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth A Lifestyle Blog from Eva Amurri Sun, 31 Mar 2019 11:16:51 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.5 By: Paige https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-127492 Sun, 31 Mar 2019 11:16:51 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-127492 ]]> Thank You!
I needed to read this today – this is our second baby and 3rd pregnancy. I often feel disconnected and guilty that I’m not connecting like I did with my first pregnancy – but I also am more fearful after losing our last baby at 12 weeks. Life is SO busy .
Luckily baby is healthy, and so am I! I keep reminding myself to relax and enjoy this time being pregnant
It’s so reassuring to know that I am not alone in these feelings ♥️

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By: Dap https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-82061 Wed, 15 Aug 2018 03:15:28 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-82061 We can connect with you, we lost our girl at 22 weeks, you echoed our mind and thoughts,
Wish we could have been connected with the baby the same way for our 1st kid. Gratitude matters. God bless

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By: Big Sisterhood - REZTT https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-28007 Wed, 25 Jan 2017 13:57:28 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-28007 […] as a Big Sister was pretty much my favorite part of being pregnant.  My pregnancy with Major had a lot of ups and downs, and for a while there I was surviving from day-to-day just waiting for the other shoe to drop.  […]

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By: Meike https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-21513 Tue, 30 Aug 2016 13:09:33 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-21513 Dear Eva, thank you so much for this post! Your blog is being read in Germany 🙂
I came to read it in June after a late miscarriage at 18 weeks. It would have been my 3rd child. For a long time I was so upset and really angry with me and my body. I kept thinking that I simply “couldn’t do it” as this wasn’t my first miscarriage. I had an early miscarriage btw. my first and second child…two out of four – not a very good quota 🙁 What I’ve learned is that changing perspective can change your life! I had a great midwife who helped me understand that my body had shown incredible strength by letting go those of my children who were just not meant to live outside my body.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and for your honesty about your own loss! I know try to look at both losses with gratitude as they make me a better mom to my two kids that are with me 🙂

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By: Kacie Emmett https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-21507 Tue, 30 Aug 2016 05:50:03 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-21507 What a beautiful post. Exactly what I needed to hear today. I am not a mother, and I have not experienced a miscarriage. However, I related so much to the feelings of expectation and disappointment you expressed. You are such a gifted writer and artist. I always look forward to hearing your truth. Thank you for sharing. 🙂

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By: Greg Fillmore https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-21472 Mon, 29 Aug 2016 05:05:11 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-21472 Hello Eva,

Thank you for sharing personally, about your preganancy, you are helping share the opportunity for SO many women, as well as men, who have lost a child to a miscarriage.

You are being with doing ALL of the right things, with diet, supplements, nutrition, work family balance, moving to be near your husbands work HAS probably helped so much, like lifesavers, with your favorite apple, I like york mints with a symphony bar, but still on the search for that renaisannce lady whose kiss is like the best fruit flavor, but you can hold her too!

I have to be reminded by friends mostly, or my mother reminding me from the higher energy frequency, “Budly, your experience in life starts with your foundational thought energy.

Humbly take a look, on youtube, to see the Japanese scientists experiment about a note posted on two square cubes of water, one saying “love” the other saying “hate” in Japanese, English.

My sister miscarried more than once, we have talked about that, SO hard. Observationally that you are choosing everything reasonable, to make sure, not another miscarriage happens.

Just know you have a man as a distant aquantance here, who admires your wisdom, humor, with equally your acting works, who is so appreciative for this blog, you are helping SO many people.

Your youngster will be fine, can’t wait to see pictures with the rest of the co leaders here at your superior blog.

Eva it would be SO neat, when you feel the calling, with the timing right, to be in a screwball comedy.

I LOVE Woody Allens films, just humbly thinking out loud, you have snap crackle pop comedic timing just like your mother. “Imm from Neew Jeeersy, living heeere is like liivving at Diiisneyland.

You are appreciated,

Greg Fillmore

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By: Risa https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-21446 Sun, 28 Aug 2016 02:06:48 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-21446 Hi Eva,
I’m super late to reading this post (went back to work last week after maternity leave), but wanted to thank you for your honesty, and for providing a forum for so many women to share their feelings.

My baby was breech at 30 weeks, and just before I was about to schedule some chiropractor and acupuncture appointments to see if we could flip him, my husband googled some simple things that we thought were worth trying at home.

We’re huge music fans so one tip we read seemed like fun – and it worked! We played some music on headphones down where we wanted his head to be, and he started reacting and kicking. 20-30 minutes later, I felt him moving in a way that I never had before. I was convinced he was turning, but wanted to wait for the doc to confirm. And at the next appointment they confirmed he was indeed head down.

It’s an easy thing to try just to see what happens.

But no matter what, you and your baby will love one another so much. Best of luck to you.

(p.s. Speaking of my husband above, he’s a huge Premier league fan (Arsenal) and we love watching Kyle every weekend!)

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By: katie https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-21380 Thu, 25 Aug 2016 13:12:39 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-21380 This is beautiful! could you also write an article summarizing some of your Q&A Answers from SnapChat the other day? you know.. in your spare time 😉

I am reusing the quote about how baby #2 is a gift to your baby #1. We JUST found out we are expecting and have our 20 month old at home and I am FTFO. : |

you gave me SO much peace of mind, ironically, the night before I found out I was pregnant!

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By: Laura D https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-21328 Tue, 23 Aug 2016 05:01:12 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-21328 Eva, my sister had a breech baby.. was told she was going to have a c-section but she ended up delivering naturally. She tried everything to get the baby to turn, but what she really believes helped in the end were her chiropractor visits. Do you see one? I know it’s not a guarantee, but it’s worth trying!!! 🙂

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By: Eva Martino https://reztt.com/disappointment-fear-gratitude-growth/#comment-21317 Mon, 22 Aug 2016 14:49:52 +0000 https://happilyevaafte.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5129#comment-21317 Brittney. Hi Brittney, I'm so very sorry for your loss. And I'm so sorry that the experience was so difficult and traumatic for you– I can totally relate. Be gentle with yourself right now and take your time to grieve. Sending you all my best xoxo EAM]]> In reply to Brittney.

Hi Brittney,
I’m so very sorry for your loss. And I’m so sorry that the experience was so difficult and traumatic for you– I can totally relate. Be gentle with yourself right now and take your time to grieve. Sending you all my best

xoxo
EAM

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